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sun posted: Sun 2018-09-30 11:39:00 tags: n/a
trash out; ATM run; brunch at Farmer's Market restaurant; strawberry jelly, eggs and a tomato.
sat posted: Sat 2018-09-29 07:49:22 tags: tech
ask Kim about what I should be being proactive about - opening and funding estate account, etc. Kim said she trusts my judgment, I'm capable of Googling basic steps, and I'm not stuck talk about bills mail forwarding ordered filing filed, office nook reorganized * * * SignalVsNoise blog: There is such a thing as being too helpful Rule #1 of being genuinely helpful: Respect the wishes of the person you’re trying to help. WeddingBee forums: engineer and wife resents husband trying to "help" (... (...more)
fri posted: Fri 2018-09-28 06:39:49 tags: n/a
Spent some time after dinner and decompression to sort through the more recent account docs 200mg caf pill in lieu of coffee; shower; homemade half-caf mocha anyway. Last of the PB "One" protein bars, tasty would nom again Collected docs and contacts and a day's "intention list" which Miss graciously accepted to help move estate resolution forward. Engaged an attorney, cleanup cost came in under the insurance deductible, At his peak, Dad was probably a millionaire. That's an achievement for a man wit... (...more)
thu posted: Thu 2018-09-27 06:33:30 tags: n/a
protein bar and caf pill 10am dept. mtg, now with more muffins (but no coffee... oops) Broke away at 1pm to drive over to Wilson PD and disposition stuff. En route I called the locksmith and determined I had enough dox to have the locks re-keyed, so we set up that appt. Also chatted with the cleanup guy and interestingly they offered to (legally of course) break in if I wanted. Deferred that step on the expectation the locksmith would at least get me in to see if I could find homeowner's insurance. ... (...more)
(untitled) posted: Wed 2018-09-26 20:03:35 tags: n/a
If you offer someone a cup of tea and they say "no thanks" and that's your cue to sulk, guilt, or nag them into accepting... I'm not sure what the word for that is, but it's not graciousness If your self-esteem or sense of being liked is dependent on being allowed to do for someone else what they CAN and WANT to do for themselves... ...I'm pretty sure that's codependence responding to "no thanks" with pressure demonstrates a poor understanding or respect of boundaries, and creates distance an... (...more)